Spent

I am currently absorbing a host of things that have taken place recently. The most shocking and concerning was the news that my sister had a stroke. I can't keep all the details straight in my head but I know that she's talking more each day and can stand on her own. She lost the use of her right hand but with therapy it will get better.

I am the oldest of the five children in my immediate family and she is next. It was a total surprise and we're all reeling a bit. I know that she's getting great care and attention from the family who remained in California but, having moved to Ohio several years ago, it is hard being so far away.

The doctors say that the fact that she is a musician really helps in terms of her recovery. Still, it has to be hard to find yourself so limited. I couldn't imagine what I would do if I lost the use of my hands since they are so important to what I do.

She's tough and stubborn (my mother says it's a family trait) so that will carry her through.